Saturday, December 21, 2013

Violation of the First Amendment? Actually, not really.

Much of American society has been buzzing this week with the recent remarks made by Duck Dynasty's Phil Robertson in a GQ interview regarding homosexuality, African-Americans and divorce among other hot-button issues. 

After the interview was released, A&E made the decision to place Robertson on suspension in response to comments that insulted, impacted and alienated a large portion of society. This decision caused an uproar among fans of the show, conservatives and Christians alike calling the move a violation of the first amendment and more. 

I saw the move called a persecution of Christians, unconstitutional,  and an attack on religion among other things. The thing is, everything can be perceived from two different sides. I know that there are a number of people who are very offended by the comments, even if they do not personally identify with any of the groups in the widespread condemnation. 

Another thing that I feel compelled to point out is that there are a fair amount of Christians who were offended by the comments and who do not see A&E's decision  as an attack on Christians at all, but as a move by a company to protect the rights of other people as well as defend their brand. 

But the thoughts and feelings of how certain groups reacted to the comments and the actions taken by A&E are not even the real conversations that society should be having right now. The conversations should really be centered around what the first amendment actually means and what it protects. 

People always use the first amendment as a blanket statement to claim protection for saying things that are out of line or in some cases, a violation of a contract. The first amendment was not designed to protect people against how society and private companies will react to or respond to what you say. The first amendment protects us from the persecution of the government in regards to free speech. 

The first amendment was designed to ensure that the government could not censor its people or tell them that they were not allowed to say certain things. 

So, was Robertson charged by the government for his comments? No. He was told by the company that he works for, the one that he gets a paycheck from, the one with whom he signed a legally binding contract with that his actions and words were not acceptable. A&E had every right to suspend Robertson. 

They did not do it to attack Christians or because they are bleeding heart liberals or any of the other strongly worded accusations that are being thrown around. They did it because they wanted to take a stand against what they think is wrong. They responded in a way that they thought was proportional to the backlash that one of their "stars" was going to receive. 

As mentioned in other columns and articles, and I am going to specifically quote here from one of LZ Granderson's columns for CNN.com in italics below, you simply cannot make comments like that and not expect violent backlash, especially in this day and age. 

"You can say some stupid stuff -- whether it's Paula Deen dropping the N-word, Alec Baldwin dropping the F-word, Jesse Jackson using a derogatory word for Jewish people as he talks about New York City -- or Bobby Knight infamously saying, "'I think that if rape is inevitable, relax and enjoy it.'' -- and the First Amendment will keep you from going to jail. But it is not a get-out-of-jail-free card in the eyes of society."

Our society has been turning towards a more accepting and open-minded collaboration of people. We are more forgiving, more tolerant and honestly, more humane. It is high time that people are told that they cannot hide under rules and laws that they assume will protect them from saying anything they want, no matter how hurtful or bigoted it may be. That just is not the way it works and it is time for people to start taking real responsibility for their actions. 

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Giving Tuesday

If you have been on any form of social media today, you have likely noticed a few #givingtuesday’s popping up here and there.

This little know holiday was the brainchild of a New York nonprofit called 92nd Street Y that decided to launch a different kind of commercial holiday in response to consumer driven insanity of Black Friday followed by a weekend of frantic shopping the concludes with the ever growing Cyber Monday.

Giving Tuesday started as a grassroots movement last year to promote a holiday that was focused solely on giving back after the frantic shopping of the start-of-the-holidays madness that ensues right after Thanksgiving.

The movement is in its second year. After starting in 2012 with 2,500 partner organizations, this year about 10,000 groups participating in this movement of generosity.

Giving Tuesday is a movement, not an organization. Charities and other groups participate under the “Giving Tuesday” banner in a mission to remind people what the holiday season is really about.

Black Friday grabbed headline yet again this year as companies decided to open on
Thanksgiving evening, with some stores opening at 4 p.m. (That leaves hardly enough time to digest your turkey and sweet potatoes, let alone enjoy a nice slice of pumpkin pie with your family!).

After spending a full weekend of buying, buying, buying, even if it is for gifts and then turning around and ordering more things online on Monday, it is comforting to know that there is a growing movement in this country to focus on giving back.

This country is built on the machine of consumerism and capitalism, we have the ability to buy whatever we want whenever we want (and now we can get it even faster with this Amazon drone thing that Bezos has dreamed up). But is that always a good thing?

With Black Friday deals starting so early, we don’t even get time to finish going around the table saying what we are thankful for before Aunt Linda is dragging Tom and Mary out the door to go get that iPad she saw was on sale.

The holidays are about being thankful for what you have, for taking time to spend with your family, and for doing those silly traditions like breakfast for dinner on Christmas Eve.

Now I am not saying that we should stop buying gifts or toss the tree out with the trash, I am simply saying that we should take equal time to think about all of the blessings we have and maybe take a few seconds today to donate to an organization close to our hearts.

And just to prove that I am not just saying all of this, I decided to make a donation to the Humane Society of the United States because I know how much my pets mean to me and I don’t know how people can treat them the way they do. And if you don’t believe me, here is a screen shot of my donation.



So take time to participate in Giving Tuesday and remember all you have to be thankful for during this holiday season.